Time is one of our most expensive assets; right? So,
we
ladies don’t want to waste our precious time on a
guy who
couldn’t turn on a light switch, let alone you. Here’s
seven
ways that you can spot whether your dude is a dud
or
whether the guy you’re seeing is going to be great in
bed.
1.He’s a John Travolta
Even though he’s a little past it these days, everyone
knows that in his prime John Travolta was a
smoking hot
lover. How? Well, because of his dance floor moves.
Any
man who can move his hips like that is going to be
able to
satisfy all of your needs. The next time you go out
with this
guy get him on the dance floor and see if he has
rhythm. If
he does the next checkbox your guy needs to tick is
whether there is chemistry between the two of you
when
you dance together. If there is you know that sex is
going
to intimate, wild and everything in between.
The kiss
For once the rom-com movies have got it right – the
rest of
your relationship all rests on the success of your
first kiss.
At least, this is true in terms of your physical
relationship.
The first kiss signals to you how you both work
together on
a physical level. If your teeth clash or your mouths
work on
alternate rhythms then you know that your sex is
going to
be awkward and a tad messy. If the kiss makes you
feel as
if your insides have turned to liquid or if it makes
you want
to jump on this guy and rip off his shirt – even
though
you’re both currently in a very swanky restaurant –
then
you are guaranteed to have a passionate night you
will
never, ever forget.
So, where did you grow up?
If you want to know if he’ll be good in bed all you
need to
do is listen. When you are both talking does he ask
you
interesting and personal questions about yourself? If
he
does, then it shows he’s caring, attentive and wants
to
understand you and your needs. This is great news
for your
love life because all of these qualities will be
transferred
into the bedroom. You can expect him to ask you
what you
want and make sure he puts you and your wants
before his
own. Yet if he only talks about himself and ignores
your
attempts to bring the conversation back to you then
beware, he might be one of those men who selfishly
comes
before you’ve even had a chance to get warmed up.
Metrosexual
We all know that being good in bed isn’t just about
how
long he lasts and the special moves your guy can
bestow.
If you pull down his pants and are faced with a
tangled
bush of disgusting hair then chances are the desire
you
had for your date will have quickly vanished. Yet
you can’t
just bluntly ask your man how he takes care of his –
for
want of a better phrase – male garden. Instead you
can
look at the rest of his hair and see how well
groomed he is.
Does he have calluses on his hands? Is he well
shaved?
Does his hair need cutting? If you dare, try to get a
whiff of
your man. If your date keeps on top of these key
areas you
should be safe to enter his nether regions.
He’s firm
When you two first got together who asked who? If
he
asked you out then it’s a sign that your man knows
what
he wants and isn’t shy to go out and get out.
However, it is
the twenty-first century and women are perfectly
capable of
asking out the guys they like themselves. So, if you
want to
know if he’ll be good in bed see how he copes with
making
other decisions. For example, you could ask your
man to
choose where you go on your date. If he dithers and
ends
up asking you what you want to do, you know he’s
not
self-assured enough to make decisions and so when
you
go to bed together, he’ll never voice his needs.
Although
this sounds like a good thing, sex isn’t that enjoyable
unless both of you get what you want.
He laughed when he screamed like a girl
Dates can be nerve wracking and consequently
people
often end up doing really quite embarrassing things.
You
might find that you knock over your wine, or get
your
necklace caught in the sushi conveyor belt and end
up
getting dragged around the sushi restaurant like a
show
horse. Your guy might also do something he
wouldn’t
normally do because of his nerves – like scream like
a girl
when a car backfires. If your man does this watch
how he
reacts. If he tries to blame the scream on the 10
year-old
girl standing next to him you know that he won’t be
good in
bed. This is because sex, like dates, can also be
embarrassing. If one of you ends up doing
something
cringe-worthy in bed you want to know you can
both laugh
about it. A good sense of humour is the key to a
good night
under the covers.
His body says it all
Now, when we say his body says it all we’re not
saying
that just because he’s got a body that could rival
Brad
Pitt’s that he’s going to be good in bed – even though
it
would most certainly help. In fact, we’re talking
about body
language. If your guy crosses his arms or his legs
throughout your date then it’s a sign he’s not
actually in to
you. Other signs he doesn’t like you that much is if
he
doesn’t touch you on your date or if he doesn’t
maintain
eye contact. Watch out for these telling body signals
because, even though he’s not interested in you, he
may
still try and sleep with you. Plus the sex will be
awful; he’s
not even worth shaving your legs for.
– RealBuzz
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